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When the chips are down - Part 1
Dr Sing Kong Yuen, BVMS (Glasgow), MRCVS
Date:
17 May, 2010 |
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INCREDIBLE
BUT TRUE STORY
Year: 1998 - 2003 SARS (Severe Acute Respiratory
Syndrome)
Location: Singapore, Desker Road Coffee Shop
Yuan: Hokkien Peranakan. Male, Singaporean. Late
30s. Retrenched. Jobless. Estrangement from his
wife. No children.
Big brother: Triad chief of Desker neighbourhood
Pig face: A look-out
Susan: Coffeeshop drinks operator
Between 1995 to 1998, there was a period of
recession. Singapore was affected too even up to
the early 2000s before SARS appeared in 2003.
One of my friends lost his marketing job and
could not find any executive job for several
months. His marriage was on the rocks and his
mum sided with the daughter-in-law for some
reason I am not sure of. The HDB re-possessed
his apartment as he was unable to pay the
mortgage for many months. He had to move out to
room with some friends.
He always had a coat-and-tie job in exotic
places. I would marvel at his stories of
interesting people he had met and the closing
millions of dollars of sales for his employers
in securing accommodation regional hotels and
resorts. I had to stay put in Singapore tending
to a small animal practice. Travelling to exotic
areas of the region, let alone the world was
just too expensive for a small-time vet building
up a practice during recession.
The recession just stopped people from
travelling and so he was retrenched. I was
fortunate not to become bankrupt as most
Singaporeans stopped getting their pets treated.
After several months of rejections in his job
application, Yuan lost all his savings. He was
not the type to go around looking for loans from
friends. He decided to open a food stall in a
corner two-storey coffeeshop at Desker Road
selling laksa. As to why he set up a stall in
this notorious red-light district, I did not ask
him but I made him show me the real place as his
tale of setback was incredible for a Singaporean
brought up in a Hokkien Peranakan family with no
connections to the underworld or to the
politicians and top businessman.
I had met him for lunch two days ago on April
21, 2010. I wanted to learn some secrets of his
success as a marketer for a corporation and how
he bounced back from a severe setback in his
life. Learn from the best and successful person.
Books can only teach you theories. Lately, I had
been meeting men and women in dire straits and
looking for loans. So a meeting with Yuan was so
much positive for my spirits as his stories were
entertaining and uplifting.
During lunch at the Hans Cafe eating his
favourite sweet and sour fish, I asked Yuan to
re-tell me my favourite story of working in a
combat zone called Desker Road. Desker Road was
and probably is a "red-light" district and I
imagine the place to be frothing with gangsters.
It is a place that looks normal during the
daytime, but I could imagine that the Singapore
Mafia had a strong presence there.
Yuan recalled vividly the behaviour of gangsters
in Singapore while he was operating a small food
stall. "One day, a young man on a bicycle
beckoned me with a finger to get out of my stall
to meet him outside the coffee shop. He wanted
to extort protection money from me."
Yuan said: "Brother, I can give you free laksa.
"I have no money to give you." The extortionist
was not pleased and threatened him bodily harm.
"Why are you so depressed nowadays?" Susan, the
coffeeshop lady asked Yuan who was usually a
cheerful person. No customers want to buy from
unhappy people and he always showed a happy
front. He was selling laksa at $3.00 per bowl
and could sell 100 bowls per day during good
periods. His friend who owned the coffeeshop had
asked him to start a stall and said: "Pay me
$25.00/day or whatever amount you can." So, Yuan
had no pressure unlike the Marina Square food
courts whose rental is $10,000 - $15,000 per
month in 2010.
"Susan is the wife of the Landlord and operates
the drinks stall," Yuan elaborated. "She will
barter free drinks for my laksa. But I cannot
barter my laksa for for her Tiger Beer or
Guinness Stout."
"I don't want to cause trouble," Yuan had told
Susan what happened. Soon Susan told him, "You
will see some fireworks today."
"So, what happened?" I imagined the beast in man
to be brought forth. The extortionist would be
chased into a dead end by gangsters with poles,
parangs and machetes and hit and clubbed and
hacked to death.
"Big Brother (the gangster chief) came for
dinner and I served him. I usually gave him two
eggs for his laksa."
I have always thought that the triads and secret
societies were wiped out by the number "999" in
Singapore as the Singapore newspapers seldom
report on gang warfare. Maybe the tabloids
report such incidents but I don't read tabloids.
Many Chinese secret societies had numbers but
somebody told me that the only gang in Singapore
is "999" nowadays. Even in the red-light
district of Desker Road, I had presumed. For the
benefit of readers, "999" refers to the
Singapore police force who is the top dog except
that the control of loan sharks appear to be
slackened.
Yuan recounted: "Big Brother ate his laksa. Then
he asked his side kick to get Pig Face who was
cycling up and down the alley between Desker
Road and Rowell Road. Pig Face came and Big
Brother said: "When my mother does not cook my
lunch and dinner, I come here to eat. Why are
you harassing Yuan?"
Yuan means "Handsome" in the Hokkien dialect
according to my friend as this was his nickname
in the coffeeshop. That was what Big Brother
called him and this is what I call him for this
story as I can't identify him as he is a real
living person. More Hokkien expletives followed.
Big Brother nodded his head and slammed his
right fist on the table, spilling out the gravy
of his laksa. He squinted his one good eye and
curled the fingers of his right hand downwards
at Pig Face. His men rained punches onto Pig
Face's abdomen. Pig Face fell and he was kicked
more times.
Extortion and violence are part and parcel of
secret societies but as I did not associate with
such elements, this was the first time I had
heard of the culture of the gangsters at Desker
Road.
"I presume the gangster chief and his men get
free meals from you for protection," I said to
Yuan.
"He always pay for his meals," Yuan said to my
surprise. "Gangsters do have their code of
ethics. Do you know what Pig Face does for a
living?"
"No," I said.
"Pig Face's job was to cycle up and down the
alley between Desker and Rowell Road. Whenever
he sees the police, he will sound the alarm or
ram his bicycle into them. This will alert the
sellers of pirated CDs and pornographic
material." Since Playboy magazine is prohibited
in Singapore, there must be a demand for such
items amongst the young national servicemen."
Yuan continued as he completed eating all his
food: "Pig Face is a runner." But runners can be
ambitious too to rise up the corporate ladder.
Only that he picked the wrong person to extort.
All the characters I had written had disappeared
although the coffee shop, now taken by a new
management, still exists.
After one year selling laksa, there was a
marketing job in the a hotel. Many Singaporeans
shun a marketing and sales career as there are
targets to be made and people to be convinced to
close a sale.
Yuan is now a very successful sales person and
earns at least $5,000 per month. He still works
for various corporations. Only for legal ones
and he does not get involved with shady
businessmen. He is very selective in making
friends as many of his contacts just want to use
him for his large network.
He is the type who is afraid of starting up but
he has the network and supporters over the past
15 years to support him if he knows how to be an
entrepreneur. He has the guaranteed salary at
the end of the month. So, why bother getting out
of his comfort zone and being at risk of no
income. He never takes kick backs when he works
for the corporation. Nor does he go for the wine
and women, con people or ask for personal loans.
So, his reputation in the closely knit
hospitality industry remains good. There is a
great demand for experienced and successful
marketers in his industry. When the chips are
down, Yuan started a food stall rather than
borrow money from friends. Or con Singaporeans
by promising them high returns on their
investment. Or like the older lady who spiked
coffee of older men with Dormicum and ran off
with their money and Rolex watches for the 4th
time.
He is the sort of the rare honest employee who
is an asset to any business and was never
affected in the 2008 recession. He had no
university degree but he could perform much
better in getting sales than his managing bosses
because he had the passion to sell. And know how
and what to do in closing the sale.
As to why he worked in Desker Road and had
survived the gangsters there for one year, I
will ask him the next time I meet him. I am sure
99% of Singaporeans will not be able to survive
there.
When the chips are down, Yuan did not go around
looking for personal loans or stay at home.
Well, you could say that he had no more home
since his mother sided with his estranged wife
and his HDB apartment was re-possessed.
But he found a way to survive. Today he is
employed and as employees, he is exploited by
corporations to make money for them as he has an
extensive network of clientele. That is a
reality of life. At the end of the month, he has
a salary. And that is important for him. But I
can see that he can make three times his salary
if he is confident of coming out of his comfort
zone. His supporters are there.
It
is just like a successful songstress. If she has
a good voice and good lyrics, she would have
fans. They will increase in numbers over the
years and she does not need to sing in seedy
bars. If you have viewed the movie "The
Runaways", you can see that Joan Jett was having
setbacks in her early career. She persevered
when her lead singer in her band gave up. She
became the singer and started her own band "Joan
Jett and the Blackhearts".
Today she is very successful as a rock and roll
singer and has her own enterprise - Joan Jett
and the Blackhearts. In Asia, Teresa Teng would
be her equivalent in being successful. Belief,
Passion, Drive and Perseverance are needed to
recover from setbacks and to succeed against all
odds when the chips are down.
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